Bring your child to a variety show? Daughter: He is truly my living father!

Chapter 494

Both experts finished their suggestions.

Wei Cheng turned to look at the two and asked.

"Principal Shi, Professor Deng, I want to ask you something."

"If a child is about to commit suicide or wants to commit suicide or run away from home, what should parents do?"

Xu Jiajia asked with concern; "Why?"

"Does your child have such a situation?"

Wei Cheng rubbed his hands: "No~"

"Isn't it just asking?"

"Who can tell what the children are like nowadays?"

"I often see news about children jumping off buildings or committing suicide on the Internet, which is scary."

Xu Jiajia nodded: "That's right~"

"Two experts, what should we do in this situation?"

"Principal Shi, I heard that there were two children in your previous school who really jumped. Why?"

Principal Shi's mouth twitched.

He glared at Xu Jiajia with disdain. He was really talking about something that was not related to the topic.

At that time, he had not retired yet. He was the principal of the school, and the parents came to the school to make trouble.

Principal Shi: "Hmm~"

"Hmm~"

No one spoke for a long time.

Professor Deng spoke instead.

"Some children really want to jump, but they just want to intimidate their parents and meet their own requirements."

"At this time, parents should not show excessive worry or nervousness.

You know, children will also observe their parents.

If you find that parents will give in and compromise when threatening them with this method, it will work every time."

"At this time, I will teach you a trick to easily resolve children's verbal threats of "I want to die."

When they heard that there was a trick to resolve it.

Parents in front of the video pricked up their ears and listened carefully.

Professor Deng continued;

"If the child tells the parents 'I don't want to live anymore, I might as well die.'"

"Then parents can ask him in a joking tone how he plans to die?"

"Often at this step, children will get stuck. Because they are just using this matter to threaten their parents, to achieve their own goals, they don't really want to die, so they won't think about it carefully."

"If he says he wants to jump off a building."

"Parents can take an egg, drop it from a high place, and let him see the miserable state of the egg breaking.

The eggshell breaks and the yolk spreads into a pool. Just ask the child if he wants to become so ugly. ”

“Then tell the child that you can recommend several less ugly ways to die, such as starving to death, being sleepy to death…

If you starve to death, don’t eat or drink water from today.

If you are sleepy to death, don’t sleep tonight.

You can also be exhausted to death, do 100 papers, start now. ”

“When children see this situation, they basically won’t threaten their parents with mantras like ‘I want to die’.”

“In this way, you don’t need to confront them or compromise, and you can deal with it easily.”

Wei Cheng nodded repeatedly and kept saying to Professor Deng: “I learned it, I learned it.”

Backstage.

Director Wang smiled when he heard Professor Deng’s suggestion.

After so many episodes of the show, Professor Deng finally made some useful suggestions, which

was worthy of the notice fee he paid.

At this time, many parents also expressed their feelings in the barrage of the live broadcast room.

——"Professor Deng is indeed an education expert. The problem that I have been worrying about for so long has been solved so easily. I must try it next time."

——"Hahaha, rotten eggs. My daughter likes beautiful things the most. She will definitely not think of jumping off the building when she sees them."

——"Professor Deng is so right. When facing children who threaten their parents with the catchphrase "I want to die", you must not give in. Children are very good at observing words and expressions. If they are discovered by them, it's over! In the future, they will always want to die. How can they be educated if they are caught by their parents?"

——"My child said "I want to die" to threaten me. I didn't learn it from TV, but from my mother-in-law, haha. Threatening us with hanging all day long, it's not that he wants to die, it's just a threat. I didn't expect my son to learn it so well."

"..."

"Professor Deng."

"I think your method still depends on the situation. It is not suitable for all situations."

Professor Deng looked at Xu Jiajia who was talking and glared.

"Then tell me."

Xu Jiajia picked up the microphone and said.

"Some time ago, I saw a news report."

"A junior high school girl couldn't stand the pressure from her family and studies, so she stood on the rooftop and prepared to jump off the building.

She was finally persuaded by the fire brigade police and returned home.

After returning home, her parents thought she was bluffing and criticized her, and her mother even slapped her.

As a result, that night, she took advantage of her parents' sleep, went up to the rooftop again, and jumped off."

"So, I think it depends on the situation.

Not all children say this to scare their parents.

If it really happens, it will be too late for parents to regret. ”

“For example, those people who were watching and making trouble just now didn’t believe that the boy would really stab himself.

If it weren’t for Xiao Yang, he would have been killed on the spot, and those who made trouble would not have been able to escape. ”

“It still requires patient persuasion to figure out what the child is thinking, whether the parents themselves have put excessive pressure on the child, or something happened at school.

Rather than just solving the child’s catchphrase. ”

Audience:

——“I also saw this news. Hey, what kind of parents are these parents? ? Have they really cared about their daughter? This daughter usually locks herself in the room, doesn’t communicate with people, and even doesn’t communicate with classmates. It’s obvious that there is a problem in her heart. Even so, the parents still think that the child is scaring people. ”

——“Yes, Jia Jia is right. Parents must be able to observe and distinguish whether the child really wants to commit suicide or is threatening them. When the child was on the edge of the limit and asked the parents for help, the parents slapped the child and scolded him for being hypocritical and causing trouble for them. He was so old and still ignorant... The child would really be unable to think and go down a road of no return."

——"Some parents, do they love their children? ? For example, Chaochao's father, they only care about their children's scores, future prospects, and whether their children can make them look good.

Instead of caring whether the children are really healthy, happy, and happy..."

——"Hey, I don't want to discuss such a serious topic. I want to see what Xiao Yang and Xiao Xiao are doing now.

I think Xiao Xiao is very sunny and cheerful. I just need to learn from Xiao Yang when I have a child."

"..."

As the discussion of a topic ended.,

The screen of the live broadcast room switched to Xiao Yang and Xiao Xiao's live broadcast room again.

This time, Dai Chuan and Niu Niu also appeared in the live broadcast room.

The two fathers took the two children and prepared to go to watch the cockfighting performance.